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><channel><title>Chris Pirillo &#187; dating</title> <atom:link href="http://chris.pirillo.com/tag/dating/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://chris.pirillo.com</link> <description>News and Reviews! Geek, Internet Entrepreneur, Hardware Addict, Software Junkie, Book Author, Once TV Show Host, Technology Enthusiast, Shameless Self-Promoter, Tech Conference Coordinator, Early Adopter, Idea Evangelist, Tech Support Blogger, Bootstrapper, Media Personality, Technology Consultant, Thicker Quicker Picker Upper.</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:25:42 +0000</lastBuildDate> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5</generator> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <copyright>&#xA9; </copyright> <managingEditor>chris@pirillo.com ()</managingEditor> <webMaster>chris@pirillo.com()</webMaster> <category></category> <itunes:keywords></itunes:keywords> <itunes:subtitle></itunes:subtitle> <itunes:summary>Geek, Internet Entrepreneur, Hardware Addict, Software Junkie, Book Author, Once TV Show Host, Technology Enthusiast, Shameless Self-Promoter, Tech Conference Coordinator, Early Adopter, Idea Evangelist, Tech Support Blogger, Bootstrapper, Media Personality, Technology Consultant, Thicker Quicker Picker Upper.</itunes:summary> <itunes:author></itunes:author> <itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/> <itunes:owner> <itunes:name></itunes:name> <itunes:email>chris@pirillo.com</itunes:email> </itunes:owner> <itunes:block>No</itunes:block> <itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit> <itunes:image href="http://chris.pirillo.com/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/powered_by_podpress_large.jpg" /> <image> <url>http://chris.pirillo.com/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/powered_by_podpress.jpg</url><title>Chris Pirillo</title><link>http://chris.pirillo.com</link> <width>144</width> <height>144</height> </image> <item><title>How To Tell If Your Date Is a Potential Train Wreck</title><link>http://chris.pirillo.com/how-to-tell-if-your-date-is-a-potential-train-wreck/</link> <comments>http://chris.pirillo.com/how-to-tell-if-your-date-is-a-potential-train-wreck/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 00:11:48 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>coupons</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category> <category><![CDATA[information]]></category> <category><![CDATA[dating]]></category> <category><![CDATA[graphology]]></category> <category><![CDATA[handwriting_analysis]]></category> <category><![CDATA[how-to]]></category><guid
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href="http://chris.pirillo.com/how-to-tell-if-your-date-is-a-potential-train-wreck/">How To Tell If Your Date Is a Potential Train Wreck</a> is a post from <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com">Chris Pirillo</a></p><p><em><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/4P6PC2FXGK0inREEGWTH6Nmj-G3jEPSwUgssDxXFqBDCshkSchj3f5xHFQuhqfXh0gd3um9SbBPXxM9QreEaqjv6lIFJtmUb/Untitled.jpg?width=48&#038;height=48&#038;crop=1%3A1" alt="Geek!" title="Geek!" width="48" height="48" style="float: right; padding: 10px" />This is <a
href="http://geeks.pirillo.com/profile/KatieDarden">Katie Darden&#8217;s</a> submission for the <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/2008/12/04/how-to-get-a-computer/">HP Magic Giveaway</a>. Feel free to leave comments for this article as you see fit &#8211; your feedback is certainly welcomed! If you&#8217;d like to submit your own how-to, what-is, or top-five list, you can <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/contact/">send it to me</a>. Views and opinions of this writer are not necessarily my own:</em></p><p>Let’s face it, dating is a gamble – especially today.  First you have to find someone who appears to be interesting, then you have to spend enough time together to find out if you’re reasonably compatible.  And what makes it harder is that most people start out on their “best behavior” – at least for the first few months.</p><p>So you spend several months getting to know each other, becoming comfortable with the cute little idiosyncrasies, and generally investing lots of emotional energy into this new relationship.  Imagine your disappointment when you suddenly realize that those idiosyncrasies have become an irritation.  And not just a minor irritation, but a major pain-in-the-neck!  Now you’re not so sure you want to be with this person any longer.  In fact, depending on what you’ve finally discovered or realized, you may be looking for any possible escape from a situation that is making you miserable!</p><p>Luckily not all relationships end up this way.  And, there’s actually a way to spot trouble before it starts.  If you take the time to learn how to recognize a few red flags, you may be able to see the (hand)writing on the wall long before you get into a mess in the first place.</p><p>Using simple graphology (handwriting analysis), you can learn a lot about how a person interacts with the world.  This information can help you avoid a dating “Train wreck” before it happens.  So go grab a sample of your prospective date’s handwriting, and let’s see how it matches up with the handwriting traits listed below.  You can use a note, a shopping list, a letter – whatever you can find that has a few words scribbled on it.</p><p><b>Train wreck Traits to Watch Out For</b></p><p>There are several letter formations (traits) that, when taken together, indicate trouble.  Here are five you can learn that will help you recognize when to put the brakes on.  One or two may be acceptable, but if your date has all five, you’re in for a rocky ride!</p><p><b>Trait #1 – Lying loops</b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cPRWhbt7Q8-Mt0BEP1yjwtlNkwmuNFMxrdIic3Q49MR-t9pWtfrhMhVBISQvKhkpDitOqzdfIa*HbJpFjIUgqDw/1.jpg" alt="Lying Loops 1" style="float: right" /> <img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cNKeQJ4FMt4uWH0DRgIgDLK-9ZbuU1PkfaFKLlPaCG4N*jBbtnGEzAHSCG6Z3ugOw5bCVPECdo5CbGqt3lfn4OI/2.jpg" alt="Lying Loops 2" style="float: right" /><br
/> The loops in our handwriting indicate imagination. When the letter “o” has double loops, the person has a difficult time being honest with himself or with others. If the loops overlap, creating a third (inner) loop, this person is a pathological liar and will make up stories even when the truth is better.  If honesty is important to you, then avoid this person altogether.</p><p><b>Trait #2 – Low Self Esteem </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cNKjQfo436XFYqKUIolYhuvXLvRQC8*J3tGf69Djo2mAcY3Ocy*7F7eQly7zoo*TZOOJrouw0N9vOccvV9yka5D/3.jpg" alt="Low Esteem" style="float:right" /></p><p>Low self esteem is probably the number one problem facing people today. The person with a low self-image is not only afraid of failure, but is also afraid of making changes because those changes could lead to failure.</p><p>This shows up in the handwriting as very low cross bars on the letter “t”, and often manifests as being highly self-critical and unworthy.  People with low self esteem will often bend over backwards in their relationship and simply put up with unkind treatment from their partner.  Unfortunately they tend to believe they deserve the mistreatment they receive, and so they stay in a bad relationship.</p><p>While it may be attractive to be with someone who is outwardly very generous in the beginning of a relationship, those with low self esteem can also be so unsure of themselves that they become clingy, needing more and more of your time and energy. In general, the higher the cross bar, the higher the self esteem.</p><p><b>Trait #3 –Needs a Challenge (and Makes it You) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cP54-rc51n-CDGSJi2mJW3NXCI9qM3pCKTbQG-CM1q3xd-iYOsNLnXkTyUUewqUOscgHSG*G5AJQHhhTj4IEum0/4.jpg" alt="Needs a Challenge" style="float:right" /></p><p>See how the top of the letter looks like a stinger?  People who have “stingers” in their writing usually have an unresolved power issue with an authority figure of the opposite sex. This often has its roots in childhood or adolescence and may have been with a parent, a close relative, or some other adult who exerted power or authority over them.</p><p>As they get older, they find themselves drawn to people and situations where there is a challenge.  It’s the classic story of getting bored with the “nice guy” and dumping him for the class rebel.  While these kinds of relationships may be exciting and intense, they can also become destructive, especially if the person with the stinger continually provokes the other partner.</p><p><b>Trait #4 – Overly-Sensitive (or Downright Paranoia) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cM20YgS*leyghGSQoMXjgmugUKSLsqkAVbnHyJPW2livgPDdHbzxyMz3clLPa7DeQH7EZ3h*JNpxMs8vZPzTWTe/5.jpg" alt="Overly Sensitive" style="float:right" /></p><p>The person who is overly sensitive to criticism writes the letters “l, d, h, or b” with wider than normal upper loops.  This imagination in the realm of the intellect causes the person to believe there is criticism even when none is present.  If the loop is exaggerated, then this person can be downright paranoid, imagining all kinds of things which may or may not be true.</p><p>The larger the loop, the more room for imagination to fill it.</p><p><b>Trait #5 – Anti-Social (Fear of Needing Others) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cO2GL1rvLb2eqUsf0E*5JaIMN6fx4RXqUnmNT30x6QgVWKL4saQwFPyJdnE02CzaIiDe*sDgCOUvsJ28RNez8GS/6.jpg" alt="Anti-Social" style="float:right" /></p><p>Just as a loop indicates imagination, the lack of a loop indicates lack of imagination.  When we are young, we’re taught to write the letters “y, g, j, or z” with a lower loop.  As we become adults, our handwriting changes from the textbook examples. This is a natural part of our development as our handwriting begins to respond to our mental processes.</p><p>When a person writes these lower loop letters with very wide loops, it indicates he has lots of imagination in the realm of physical relationships.  This person is generally very gullible and too trusting of others.</p><p>When a person writes these letters with a small loop, or no loop at all, it indicates there is a distinct lack of trust.  This person may like to be around others, but will be somewhat reserved when it comes to sharing his personal life.   He may have a small circle of friends, or prefer to be a loner.</p><p>The smaller the loop, the less trust is felt towards others.</p><p><b>Major Train wreck:  Dual Personality</b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cMKcJXoDzdoski-BWSrLawyGZmhOMzsETk9QYEg1IorqBH5WrfyumKgSxqPLRNL0P8S-Ms9V0h97jISZWZQr5kv/7.jpg" alt="Dual-Personality" style="float:right" /></p><p>While one or two of the previous traits might be unpleasant, they’re not generally, by themselves, a deal breaker.  Someone with this particular trait, however, should be avoided at all costs if you value stability in your relationships.</p><p>The slant of our handwriting reveals our emotional response to life, circumstances and people.  From time to time we all shift our slant in one direction or another, depending on what is going on at the moment.  For instance, when I take notes, my writing is more vertical.  When I’m writing to a friend it slants to the right.</p><p>However, when you see writing that changes within the same sentence &#8211; or even worse within the same word &#8211; this tells you the person is not emotionally stable.  With emotional responses shifting all over the place, you will never know what to expect.</p><p>This trait, even by itself, is a red flag saying, “Stay Away!”  When it’s found with any of the other traits on this list, it amplifies the dysfunctional part of that trait.</p><p><b>Save Yourself! </b></p><p>No one is perfect, and everyone has some faults.  Most of us can deal with one or two of these traits in a partner, provided they’re not extreme.  Understanding yourself and recognizing how these traits play out in a relationship will help you determine which ones you can live with.  And becoming good at spotting these traits might just save you from your own train wreck.<ul
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href="http://chris.pirillo.com/how-to-tell-if-your-date-is-a-potential-train-wreck/">How To Tell If Your Date Is a Potential Train Wreck</a> is a post from <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com">Chris Pirillo</a></p><p><em><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/4P6PC2FXGK0inREEGWTH6Nmj-G3jEPSwUgssDxXFqBDCshkSchj3f5xHFQuhqfXh0gd3um9SbBPXxM9QreEaqjv6lIFJtmUb/Untitled.jpg?width=48&#038;height=48&#038;crop=1%3A1" alt="Geek!" title="Geek!" width="48" height="48" style="float: right; padding: 10px" />This is <a
href="http://geeks.pirillo.com/profile/KatieDarden">Katie Darden&#8217;s</a> submission for the <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/2008/12/04/how-to-get-a-computer/">HP Magic Giveaway</a>. Feel free to leave comments for this article as you see fit &#8211; your feedback is certainly welcomed! If you&#8217;d like to submit your own how-to, what-is, or top-five list, you can <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/contact/">send it to me</a>. Views and opinions of this writer are not necessarily my own:</em></p><p>Let’s face it, dating is a gamble – especially today.  First you have to find someone who appears to be interesting, then you have to spend enough time together to find out if you’re reasonably compatible.  And what makes it harder is that most people start out on their “best behavior” – at least for the first few months.</p><p>So you spend several months getting to know each other, becoming comfortable with the cute little idiosyncrasies, and generally investing lots of emotional energy into this new relationship.  Imagine your disappointment when you suddenly realize that those idiosyncrasies have become an irritation.  And not just a minor irritation, but a major pain-in-the-neck!  Now you’re not so sure you want to be with this person any longer.  In fact, depending on what you’ve finally discovered or realized, you may be looking for any possible escape from a situation that is making you miserable!</p><p>Luckily not all relationships end up this way.  And, there’s actually a way to spot trouble before it starts.  If you take the time to learn how to recognize a few red flags, you may be able to see the (hand)writing on the wall long before you get into a mess in the first place.</p><p>Using simple graphology (handwriting analysis), you can learn a lot about how a person interacts with the world.  This information can help you avoid a dating “Train wreck” before it happens.  So go grab a sample of your prospective date’s handwriting, and let’s see how it matches up with the handwriting traits listed below.  You can use a note, a shopping list, a letter – whatever you can find that has a few words scribbled on it.</p><p><b>Train wreck Traits to Watch Out For</b></p><p>There are several letter formations (traits) that, when taken together, indicate trouble.  Here are five you can learn that will help you recognize when to put the brakes on.  One or two may be acceptable, but if your date has all five, you’re in for a rocky ride!</p><p><b>Trait #1 – Lying loops</b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cPRWhbt7Q8-Mt0BEP1yjwtlNkwmuNFMxrdIic3Q49MR-t9pWtfrhMhVBISQvKhkpDitOqzdfIa*HbJpFjIUgqDw/1.jpg" alt="Lying Loops 1" style="float: right" /> <img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cNKeQJ4FMt4uWH0DRgIgDLK-9ZbuU1PkfaFKLlPaCG4N*jBbtnGEzAHSCG6Z3ugOw5bCVPECdo5CbGqt3lfn4OI/2.jpg" alt="Lying Loops 2" style="float: right" /><br
/> The loops in our handwriting indicate imagination. When the letter “o” has double loops, the person has a difficult time being honest with himself or with others. If the loops overlap, creating a third (inner) loop, this person is a pathological liar and will make up stories even when the truth is better.  If honesty is important to you, then avoid this person altogether.</p><p><b>Trait #2 – Low Self Esteem </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cNKjQfo436XFYqKUIolYhuvXLvRQC8*J3tGf69Djo2mAcY3Ocy*7F7eQly7zoo*TZOOJrouw0N9vOccvV9yka5D/3.jpg" alt="Low Esteem" style="float:right" /></p><p>Low self esteem is probably the number one problem facing people today. The person with a low self-image is not only afraid of failure, but is also afraid of making changes because those changes could lead to failure.</p><p>This shows up in the handwriting as very low cross bars on the letter “t”, and often manifests as being highly self-critical and unworthy.  People with low self esteem will often bend over backwards in their relationship and simply put up with unkind treatment from their partner.  Unfortunately they tend to believe they deserve the mistreatment they receive, and so they stay in a bad relationship.</p><p>While it may be attractive to be with someone who is outwardly very generous in the beginning of a relationship, those with low self esteem can also be so unsure of themselves that they become clingy, needing more and more of your time and energy. In general, the higher the cross bar, the higher the self esteem.</p><p><b>Trait #3 –Needs a Challenge (and Makes it You) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cP54-rc51n-CDGSJi2mJW3NXCI9qM3pCKTbQG-CM1q3xd-iYOsNLnXkTyUUewqUOscgHSG*G5AJQHhhTj4IEum0/4.jpg" alt="Needs a Challenge" style="float:right" /></p><p>See how the top of the letter looks like a stinger?  People who have “stingers” in their writing usually have an unresolved power issue with an authority figure of the opposite sex. This often has its roots in childhood or adolescence and may have been with a parent, a close relative, or some other adult who exerted power or authority over them.</p><p>As they get older, they find themselves drawn to people and situations where there is a challenge.  It’s the classic story of getting bored with the “nice guy” and dumping him for the class rebel.  While these kinds of relationships may be exciting and intense, they can also become destructive, especially if the person with the stinger continually provokes the other partner.</p><p><b>Trait #4 – Overly-Sensitive (or Downright Paranoia) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cM20YgS*leyghGSQoMXjgmugUKSLsqkAVbnHyJPW2livgPDdHbzxyMz3clLPa7DeQH7EZ3h*JNpxMs8vZPzTWTe/5.jpg" alt="Overly Sensitive" style="float:right" /></p><p>The person who is overly sensitive to criticism writes the letters “l, d, h, or b” with wider than normal upper loops.  This imagination in the realm of the intellect causes the person to believe there is criticism even when none is present.  If the loop is exaggerated, then this person can be downright paranoid, imagining all kinds of things which may or may not be true.</p><p>The larger the loop, the more room for imagination to fill it.</p><p><b>Trait #5 – Anti-Social (Fear of Needing Others) </b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cO2GL1rvLb2eqUsf0E*5JaIMN6fx4RXqUnmNT30x6QgVWKL4saQwFPyJdnE02CzaIiDe*sDgCOUvsJ28RNez8GS/6.jpg" alt="Anti-Social" style="float:right" /></p><p>Just as a loop indicates imagination, the lack of a loop indicates lack of imagination.  When we are young, we’re taught to write the letters “y, g, j, or z” with a lower loop.  As we become adults, our handwriting changes from the textbook examples. This is a natural part of our development as our handwriting begins to respond to our mental processes.</p><p>When a person writes these lower loop letters with very wide loops, it indicates he has lots of imagination in the realm of physical relationships.  This person is generally very gullible and too trusting of others.</p><p>When a person writes these letters with a small loop, or no loop at all, it indicates there is a distinct lack of trust.  This person may like to be around others, but will be somewhat reserved when it comes to sharing his personal life.   He may have a small circle of friends, or prefer to be a loner.</p><p>The smaller the loop, the less trust is felt towards others.</p><p><b>Major Train wreck:  Dual Personality</b></p><p><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/FDtNZDNO7cMKcJXoDzdoski-BWSrLawyGZmhOMzsETk9QYEg1IorqBH5WrfyumKgSxqPLRNL0P8S-Ms9V0h97jISZWZQr5kv/7.jpg" alt="Dual-Personality" style="float:right" /></p><p>While one or two of the previous traits might be unpleasant, they’re not generally, by themselves, a deal breaker.  Someone with this particular trait, however, should be avoided at all costs if you value stability in your relationships.</p><p>The slant of our handwriting reveals our emotional response to life, circumstances and people.  From time to time we all shift our slant in one direction or another, depending on what is going on at the moment.  For instance, when I take notes, my writing is more vertical.  When I’m writing to a friend it slants to the right.</p><p>However, when you see writing that changes within the same sentence &#8211; or even worse within the same word &#8211; this tells you the person is not emotionally stable.  With emotional responses shifting all over the place, you will never know what to expect.</p><p>This trait, even by itself, is a red flag saying, “Stay Away!”  When it’s found with any of the other traits on this list, it amplifies the dysfunctional part of that trait.</p><p><b>Save Yourself! </b></p><p>No one is perfect, and everyone has some faults.  Most of us can deal with one or two of these traits in a partner, provided they’re not extreme.  Understanding yourself and recognizing how these traits play out in a relationship will help you determine which ones you can live with.  And becoming good at spotting these traits might just save you from your own train wreck.<ul
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isPermaLink="false">http://chris.pirillo.com/?p=10930</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p><a
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href="http://chris.pirillo.com">Chris Pirillo</a></p><p><em><img
src="http://api.ning.com/files/MG3BhQK*ipatULdTJZU3aBidQnh2DRPPiH3MyDhCDo*RIidV-EoYNQkeeGKlehGF2BQIZsHbZu5HHrimi-A*5XdxLOHH-CUH/MyPhoto08092604.JPG?width=48&#038;height=48&#038;crop=1%3A1" alt="Geek!" title="Geek!" width="48" height="48" style="float: right; padding: 10px" />This is <a
href="http://geeks.pirillo.com/profile/Amber">Amber&#8217;s</a> submission for the <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/2008/12/04/how-to-get-a-computer/">HP Magic Giveaway</a>. Feel free to leave comments for this article as you see fit &#8211; your feedback is certainly welcomed! If you&#8217;d like to submit your own how-to, what-is, or top-five list, you can <a
href="http://chris.pirillo.com/contact/">send it to me</a>. Views and opinions of this writer are not necessarily my own:</em></p><p>You know you&#8217;ve seen her, fellas. She&#8217;s not a cheerleader, and she wasn&#8217;t the prom queen. Most likely, she&#8217;s the girl who carried a sci-fi novel in her backpack, right next to her GBA in high school. She probably spent prom night at a LAN party, rather than subjecting herself to dancing to top 40 songs and avoiding the eager hands of an excitable classmate. Today, you probably see her in a  cubicle, partially hidden behind her Pokemon figurines and her demotivational posters. While rare, these girls are approachable &#8211; though you may need to change your game plan a bit.</p><ol><li><strong>Find out what she&#8217;s into, and strike up a conversation about it.</strong> Does she like video games? Is she into a certain sort of literature? Maybe she owns all the seasons of Star Trek and enjoys watching them in all-night marathons! This works even better if you find out what the two of you both like, and can have an in-depth conversation about it. Who knows, maybe it could even be first date material! A candlelight dinner followed by a Star Wars marathon? Score!<li><strong>Just because she gets more frags than you do, doesn&#8217;t mean she&#8217;s not girly.</strong> Sure, we geeky females like to show how smart and independent we are, but little things aren&#8217;t lost on us. Compliments to our outfits and appearance are always nice! Oh, come on, girls. You know you love it when a guy calls you pretty! Flowers, cards, and small tokens are still welcomed. Provided that she isn&#8217;t a hardcore feminist, you should always open the door for a girl, and take her out on the town every so often. I&#8217;m not saying that you need to buy a geek girl&#8217;s affections, but it is nice to show that you recognize her for more than just her ability to kick ass at Halo. Homemade free gifts are always welcomed, too. You could always fashion a home made Valentine from old electronics, you know. Example: <a
href="http://estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813" title="http://estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813" target="_blank">estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813</a> &#8211; w00t!<li><strong>Don&#8217;t automatically assume you&#8217;re the first guy to ask us out.</strong> Sure, we&#8217;re geeky. While we may not be the first girl on every guy&#8217;s mind, you shouldn&#8217;t assume that we&#8217;re going to be an easy target &#8211; and don&#8217;t expect that we&#8217;re going to be grateful that you&#8217;ve come along to sweep us off our feet and into bed. Remember: we&#8217;re geeky by choice, and we were doing fine before you came along. You have to make sure we know that the two of us be doing even better now  that you&#8217;re here. Do this by being affectionate, not by acting like you&#8217;re rescuing us from lonely Saturday nights.<li><strong>Don&#8217;t feel like you need to constantly try to out-game us, and don&#8217;t assume that we need your help.</strong> It&#8217;s really annoying when you point out what we&#8217;re supposed to be doing in a game. Even if we&#8217;re not as good as you in certain things, there is a self-gratification that comes from beating a game all by ourselves. Trust me: if we need your help, we&#8217;ll ask. Well, maybe after we consult a walk-through, but only if we&#8217;re really stuck.<li><strong>Try new things together.</strong> Just like any other relationship, this could get boring fast if all you two do is watch movies or play the same games together. Just because you two are geeky, that doesn&#8217;t mean that you can&#8217;t head out for a night on the town! Or maybe a picnic is more your style. After all, you could always bring your DSes and play after the potato salad has been put away. Sure, you can bowl a 300 on Wii Bowling, but maybe you two could have a friendly wager over who can knock down more pins in a real bowling alley. These are the sort of things that make relationships memorable &#8211; and lasting.</ol><p>Point is, fellas: take a shine to what she&#8217;s into, don&#8217;t forget that she actually is &#8211; you know &#8211; a girl. Oh, and be prepared to argue over who gets to play the 360 every so often, as that is just inevitable.</p><p>And ladies, cut him some slack. Chances are, he&#8217;s trying pretty hard, you know.</p><p>Happy geeking!<ul
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src="http://api.ning.com/files/MG3BhQK*ipatULdTJZU3aBidQnh2DRPPiH3MyDhCDo*RIidV-EoYNQkeeGKlehGF2BQIZsHbZu5HHrimi-A*5XdxLOHH-CUH/MyPhoto08092604.JPG?width=48&#038;height=48&#038;crop=1%3A1" alt="Geek!" title="Geek!" width="48" height="48" style="float: right; padding: 10px" />This is <a
href="http://geeks.pirillo.com/profile/Amber">Amber&#8217;s</a> submission for the <a
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href="http://chris.pirillo.com/contact/">send it to me</a>. Views and opinions of this writer are not necessarily my own:</em></p><p>You know you&#8217;ve seen her, fellas. She&#8217;s not a cheerleader, and she wasn&#8217;t the prom queen. Most likely, she&#8217;s the girl who carried a sci-fi novel in her backpack, right next to her GBA in high school. She probably spent prom night at a LAN party, rather than subjecting herself to dancing to top 40 songs and avoiding the eager hands of an excitable classmate. Today, you probably see her in a  cubicle, partially hidden behind her Pokemon figurines and her demotivational posters. While rare, these girls are approachable &#8211; though you may need to change your game plan a bit.</p><ol><li><strong>Find out what she&#8217;s into, and strike up a conversation about it.</strong> Does she like video games? Is she into a certain sort of literature? Maybe she owns all the seasons of Star Trek and enjoys watching them in all-night marathons! This works even better if you find out what the two of you both like, and can have an in-depth conversation about it. Who knows, maybe it could even be first date material! A candlelight dinner followed by a Star Wars marathon? Score!<li><strong>Just because she gets more frags than you do, doesn&#8217;t mean she&#8217;s not girly.</strong> Sure, we geeky females like to show how smart and independent we are, but little things aren&#8217;t lost on us. Compliments to our outfits and appearance are always nice! Oh, come on, girls. You know you love it when a guy calls you pretty! Flowers, cards, and small tokens are still welcomed. Provided that she isn&#8217;t a hardcore feminist, you should always open the door for a girl, and take her out on the town every so often. I&#8217;m not saying that you need to buy a geek girl&#8217;s affections, but it is nice to show that you recognize her for more than just her ability to kick ass at Halo. Homemade free gifts are always welcomed, too. You could always fashion a home made Valentine from old electronics, you know. Example: <a
href="http://estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813" title="http://estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813" target="_blank">estranged-illusions.deviantart.com/art/Duck-Hunt-lamp-84479813</a> &#8211; w00t!<li><strong>Don&#8217;t automatically assume you&#8217;re the first guy to ask us out.</strong> Sure, we&#8217;re geeky. While we may not be the first girl on every guy&#8217;s mind, you shouldn&#8217;t assume that we&#8217;re going to be an easy target &#8211; and don&#8217;t expect that we&#8217;re going to be grateful that you&#8217;ve come along to sweep us off our feet and into bed. Remember: we&#8217;re geeky by choice, and we were doing fine before you came along. You have to make sure we know that the two of us be doing even better now  that you&#8217;re here. Do this by being affectionate, not by acting like you&#8217;re rescuing us from lonely Saturday nights.<li><strong>Don&#8217;t feel like you need to constantly try to out-game us, and don&#8217;t assume that we need your help.</strong> It&#8217;s really annoying when you point out what we&#8217;re supposed to be doing in a game. Even if we&#8217;re not as good as you in certain things, there is a self-gratification that comes from beating a game all by ourselves. Trust me: if we need your help, we&#8217;ll ask. Well, maybe after we consult a walk-through, but only if we&#8217;re really stuck.<li><strong>Try new things together.</strong> Just like any other relationship, this could get boring fast if all you two do is watch movies or play the same games together. Just because you two are geeky, that doesn&#8217;t mean that you can&#8217;t head out for a night on the town! Or maybe a picnic is more your style. After all, you could always bring your DSes and play after the potato salad has been put away. Sure, you can bowl a 300 on Wii Bowling, but maybe you two could have a friendly wager over who can knock down more pins in a real bowling alley. These are the sort of things that make relationships memorable &#8211; and lasting.</ol><p>Point is, fellas: take a shine to what she&#8217;s into, don&#8217;t forget that she actually is &#8211; you know &#8211; a girl. Oh, and be prepared to argue over who gets to play the 360 every so often, as that is just inevitable.</p><p>And ladies, cut him some slack. Chances are, he&#8217;s trying pretty hard, you know.</p><p>Happy geeking!<ul
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href="http://feeds.pirillo.com/ChrisPirillo">RSS Feed</a></p><p>I&#8217;m not an expert on anything, even though I may get introduced as such sometimes. I tend to dismiss that label every time. I got an email from TheMacinJosh. He has a good question that many of you may either identify with, or have some answers to.</p><blockquote><p> I&#8217;m sure glad I went back to the chat room, and I&#8217;m sorry I missed out on it for so long! Anyway, my question is not tech related, but you usually always have good answers.<br
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href="http://chris.pirillo.com">Chris Pirillo</a></p><p>I&#8217;m not a doctor, and I&#8217;m certainly no relationship counselor, but that didn&#8217;t stop &#8220;Freedman&#8221; for reaching out for a bit of help:</p><blockquote><p>I&#8217;ve been watching your videos for about two months now.  You go into all sorts of topics, not just technology. I love your videos and enjoy watching them.  Your videos never have a bias opinion and always give me a welcomed feeling.</p><p>I&#8217;m writing to you at this hour because my girlfriend pulled a fast one on me.  After three years of on and off dating, she tells me she doesn&#8217;t love me anymore.  She has done this many times in the past, and we&#8217;ve gotten back together four times since 2004.  She says that she can&#8217;t live life with out me in it.  But then when we start dating time after time, she wants out of the relationship.</p><p>I&#8217;m fed up with the emotional roller coaster that I&#8217;ve been on.  We came to two choices.  Either stay in the relationship with the absence of her love.  Or break up and sever all contact with each other.</p><p>Should I just leave it all behind and start over?  Or should I keep trying?  Deep down inside, I feel as if I keep trying, there will be a reward at the end; the light at the end of the tunnel.  I&#8217;m just so overwhelmed with frustration.</p></blockquote><p>Well, Freedman&#8230; no matter her age, it sounds as though she&#8217;s not mature enough to handle a relationship. She doesn&#8217;t know what she wants! &#8220;There&#8217;s an old saying in Tennessee — I know it&#8217;s in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can&#8217;t get fooled again.&#8221;</p><p>You&#8217;re a fool for sticking with her, or thinking that time (magically) will make it all better. There are plenty of fish in the sea, dude &#8211; and it doesn&#8217;t matter what kind of guy you are. You&#8217;re better off spending your time and energy on someone else, or at least searching for someone else. I don&#8217;t care what kind of history you have with Little Miss Wishy-washy&#8230; make a clean break from her.</p><p>She doesn&#8217;t know if she loves you or not? That&#8217;s her problem, not yours. The bigger issue is that you&#8217;ve forgiven her countless times, and she&#8217;ll continue to abuse that privilege. Be careful with future girlfriends, too &#8211; because you&#8217;re likely to fall for the same kind of woman, and those relationships could turn out to be equally as abusive.</p><p>For whatever it&#8217;s worth, I&#8217;d say the same thing about this situation if the gender roles were reversed &#8211; because the shoe, quite often, is on the other foot.</p><ul
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isPermaLink="false">http://chris.pirillo.com/2008/04/01/are-social-networks-destroying-offline-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p><a
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href="http://feeds.pirillo.com/ChrisPirillo">RSS Feed</a></p><p>Is the Internet destroying relationships that are happening offline? Some people may say &#8220;yes! This is destroying my real relationships&#8221;. What do you mean&#8230; &#8216;real&#8217;? My relationships online are just as real as though offline. You get to know people&#8217;s personalities online. Heck, often you get to know the &#8220;REAL&#8221; person more online, than you do offline. When you&#8217;re talking online to someone, you tend to open yourself up more. You don&#8217;t feel the need to hide behind makeup and clothes. You can just let yourself be you.</p><p>I was doing &#8220;internet dating&#8221; before there even was such a thing. Heck, Ponzi and I met on an internet dating site. I don&#8217;t feel that the Internet has destroyed offline relationships. I feel it has allowed us to discover similarities with people that we may not have known before. It allows us to tear down barriers that would have been there in a &#8216;real life&#8217; situation. I&#8217;m connecting with&#8230; and having a friendship or relationship&#8230; with people I would have never gotten to know otherwise. I have more in common with my online friends than I do with my next door neighbor. I appreciate my online friends for who they are, not for where they live or how they dress. Just because our connection happens digitally, so to speak, doesn&#8217;t make it any less real.</p><p>My friend <a
href="http://www.negativemargins.com/">Andy Stanberry</a> is here in the office with me as I&#8217;m recording this video. We met&#8230; guess where? Online! He flew into Seattle today to help me with developing some cool new things that we&#8217;ll be bringing you more information on shortly. He actually Twittered when his plane landed in Seattle and that&#8217;s how Kat found out that he was here. Wait. <a
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href="http://feeds.pirillo.com/ChrisPirillo">RSS Feed</a></p><p>MBonzo is a regular community contributor, who happens to be writing an eBook full of dating tips for Geeks. Here are his top five (or six!) tips.</p><ul><li><strong>Be presentable.</strong> What I mean by this, is that you&#8217;ll never be able to get the cute girl at the party if you smell like tuna sandwiches. Stay well-groomed and find a look that suits you well. Start buying some nice clothing from places other than the salvation army. Once you have started choosing what you are going to wear, pick out a cologne that you really enjoy, this gives yourself an identity and you will boost your self confidence.</li><li><strong>Be Confident.</strong> It is easy to say &#8220;I am confident&#8221; but it is much different to actually be confident. Grooming yourself, working out, creating your own identity can boost your confidence in great ways. Personally&#8230;The way I came across confidence was from everyone saying that women like &#8220;a**holes.&#8221; Its not that girls like guys that steal little kids ice cream, its that they are looking for somebody that knows that they are attractive. I started jokingly boasting to my friends that I know how hot I am, I eventually developed a very cocky attitude that shows my confidence.</li><li><strong>Be Sociable.</strong> When I say sociable, I mean that you have to be able to have a conversation about something other than the typical nerdiness. Read the news and know whats going on in the world. When I first began mastering dating, I typically liked to read digg and the onion everyday so that when I got into a conversation with a girl I could mention more than how nice the weather is. Try to talk about offbeat things, this will make you stand out.</li><li><strong>Change your outlook.</strong> To start mastering dating you have to put all these tips together and create a new outlook. Be sure to view yourself from a third-person perspective to catch your mistakes. Also be aware that women are not different animals, boosting your self-esteem should bring you to the realization that you are in no way below any attractive woman.</li><li><strong>Just get her number.</strong> You would be surprised how easy it is to just get someone&#8217;s number when you are confident. Even if you are slightly overweight or unattractive women will not rule you out as dating material, in that sense you are lucky to be a guy. If you feel the connection just tell her you would like to meet up with her another time and ask her for her number. PLEASE DO NOT USE PICKUP LINES!!!! Sorry for the all caps but if you are interested in dating this girl just stay away from the fallen angel bit.</li><li><strong>BONUS TIP!</strong> Even if you consider yourself a good dater or you have a girlfriend or wife you should study body language. Go ahead and google body language to see the slight ticks that can show a girl that you are not confident being yourself. Communication is said to be 70% body language so a good goal in life is to master it. Eye-contact is probably the most important of all body language.</li></ul><p><ul><li
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href="http://feeds.pirillo.com/ChrisPirillo">RSS Feed</a></p><p>MBonzo is a regular community contributor, who happens to be writing an eBook full of dating tips for Geeks. Here are his top five (or six!) tips.</p><ul><li><strong>Be presentable.</strong> What I mean by this, is that you&#8217;ll never be able to get the cute girl at the party if you smell like tuna sandwiches. Stay well-groomed and find a look that suits you well. Start buying some nice clothing from places other than the salvation army. Once you have started choosing what you are going to wear, pick out a cologne that you really enjoy, this gives yourself an identity and you will boost your self confidence.</li><li><strong>Be Confident.</strong> It is easy to say &#8220;I am confident&#8221; but it is much different to actually be confident. Grooming yourself, working out, creating your own identity can boost your confidence in great ways. Personally&#8230;The way I came across confidence was from everyone saying that women like &#8220;a**holes.&#8221; Its not that girls like guys that steal little kids ice cream, its that they are looking for somebody that knows that they are attractive. I started jokingly boasting to my friends that I know how hot I am, I eventually developed a very cocky attitude that shows my confidence.</li><li><strong>Be Sociable.</strong> When I say sociable, I mean that you have to be able to have a conversation about something other than the typical nerdiness. Read the news and know whats going on in the world. When I first began mastering dating, I typically liked to read digg and the onion everyday so that when I got into a conversation with a girl I could mention more than how nice the weather is. Try to talk about offbeat things, this will make you stand out.</li><li><strong>Change your outlook.</strong> To start mastering dating you have to put all these tips together and create a new outlook. Be sure to view yourself from a third-person perspective to catch your mistakes. Also be aware that women are not different animals, boosting your self-esteem should bring you to the realization that you are in no way below any attractive woman.</li><li><strong>Just get her number.</strong> You would be surprised how easy it is to just get someone&#8217;s number when you are confident. Even if you are slightly overweight or unattractive women will not rule you out as dating material, in that sense you are lucky to be a guy. If you feel the connection just tell her you would like to meet up with her another time and ask her for her number. PLEASE DO NOT USE PICKUP LINES!!!! Sorry for the all caps but if you are interested in dating this girl just stay away from the fallen angel bit.</li><li><strong>BONUS TIP!</strong> Even if you consider yourself a good dater or you have a girlfriend or wife you should study body language. Go ahead and google body language to see the slight ticks that can show a girl that you are not confident being yourself. Communication is said to be 70% body language so a good goal in life is to master it. Eye-contact is probably the most important of all body language.</li></ul><p><ul><li
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href="http://feeds.pirillo.com/ChrisPirillo">RSS Feed</a></p><p>One of our community members emailed to ask me how he can find the woman of his dreams on MySpace. So&#8230; I decided to give you all my Top 5 tips for Internet dating.</p><ul><li><strong>Change your handle.</strong> If you have an online name that has to do with something Geeky, or a gamertag, it will be more difficult to attract women. Many people think that &#8220;birds of a feather flock together&#8221;, but that&#8217;s not always true. Meeting someone with a little in common can be just as good of a match. You definitely don&#8217;t want things to get boring. Having separate interests is a good thing, I promise you. If a girl is a &#8220;little&#8221; into computers, and sees your name has Linux in it, she may write you off without ever getting to know the real you.</li><li><strong>Don&#8217;t talk Tech&#8230; unless she&#8217;s into that.</strong> If you&#8217;re trying to get to know a girl, don&#8217;t just spout off everything you know about computers. Find out what she&#8217;s into, what interests her. Make an effort to talk about those things, and to understand them. Who knows? You may end up finding new interests for yourself, as well.</li><li><strong>Learn how to write. </strong> Being online is a whole new ball game. The first impression you give&#8230; and likely the only impression for awhile&#8230; is through your writing style. If you are using l33t speak, or even chat speak, you could turn off a very intelligent woman very quickly. How you write will convey the type of person you are. Take the time to check your grammar and spelling. Take the time to let who you are show through.</li><li><strong>Don&#8217;t be a drooling Fanboi.</strong> If a woman is worth having, she&#8217;s already getting emails and IM&#8217;s telling her how wonderful and perfect she is. She may hear over and over she&#8217;s &#8220;beautiful&#8221; and &#8220;sweet&#8221;. Don&#8217;t trip over your own tongue. Be realistic. Women can see through nonsense compliments and drivel. They want something that is real, and solid.</li><li><strong>Remember MySpace is NOT a dating service. </strong> It&#8217;s a social networking site. If you&#8217;re looking for love, that&#8217;s not the place to look. I recommend a free service called <a
href="http://www.plentyoffish.com">PlentyOfFish.com</a>.</li></ul><p>I met Ponzi online. Internet love really can happen, if you put some effort into it. It&#8217;s just as real, and just as lasting, as any other relationship.</p><p>Want to embed this video on your own site, blog, or forum? Use this code or <a
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