Gretchen – I apologize for how you (and the world) found out about Ponzi and me. You and I have personally indicated that we were both party in the decision to part ways, and it has lead to more happiness for both of us. The way it “came out” to everybody was not planned, not a stunt, and certainly not the way I would have chosen to tell you that I had opened myself up to a new relationship -and found a soulmate. If there's one thing I've learned from my girlfriend (Ponzi), it's that I need to be more empathetic and understanding of other folks. I'm working on changing my thought patterns thanks to her and you, and Gretchen… I hope you, too, find your soul mate as I have.