Remembering Gerald Smith
Our community was rocked by the news of the disappearance and subsequent passing of one of our own last week. Gerald Smith had been a member of our community for a long time. He participated on Geeks, in our chat room, and even spoke with me via Twitter and email many times. The news of his death hit many of us very hard, and it’s been difficult to wrap our minds around this awful event.
The day we learned of his death, a classmate of his from ISU joined Geeks. Aliya writes for the campus news – the Indiana Statesman. She asked us to submit our thoughts to her to include in an article, which appeared a few days ago. The following is what I wrote to Aliya.
Gerald was a pretty open follower of mine – and he offered the kind of support that few online community members do. While most are intent to lurk, Gerald frequently forwarded resources and shared enthusiasm with everybody else. When his mother reached out to me as a friend earlier this week, I was taken aback. I do not know how Gerald spoke of me to her, but it must have been out of respect.
I did not know Gerald personally, but his passing has certainly touched me – if only because I know that I was a small part of his life. This tragedy was certainly felt far beyond the boundaries of ISU’s campus – and I hope that fellow students realize this.
I do not intend on removing his Geeks network profile unless requested to do so. I hope it serves as a virtual memorial, somewhat frozen in time with his final thoughts and efforts. People need to know that Gerald was as real a person online as he was in the “real world.” His light may have been extinguished far before its time, but the knowledge and passion he shared with us while still alive will be paid forward indefinitely. This community is part of Gerald’s legacy, and we should all be comforted in that – realizing our posts to social networks can touch others in immeasurable ways. A senseless death reminds us all of just how important it is to remain connected with one another in any capacity.
I am honored that Gerald made me a part of his life.
On behalf of our entire community, I extend our thoughts, wishes, support and prayers to Gerald’s family and friends. We are deeply sorry for your loss – and ours. Gerald was a shining example of a young person with an amazing future ahead of them… both online and off.
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11 Comments
Alex Smith
May 13th, 2009
at 12:28pm
I asked Twitter about posting a quick remembrance Tweet on his profile but they ignored. So if anyone else wants to convince them to do so feel free.
Adam
May 13th, 2009
at 12:28pm
It’s not often you have to say words like these, even less often when online. However Geralds passing has touched us all and I am sure that we will al remember him. Chris has covered all that he gave to us as a community member and he will be missed greatly
RIP Gerald Smith.
dede
May 13th, 2009
at 1:02pm
rest in peace man, it is truly hard to lose a geeks member like you. You were an inspiration to me, More than Chris Pirillo himself. Rest In Peace Gerald Smith we’ll all miss you.
Alistair
May 13th, 2009
at 1:09pm
I also did not know him very well. but he sounded like an amazing individual and very kind to others. He will be remembered for those characteristics in my eyes.
Cirian75
May 13th, 2009
at 2:37pm
his last twitter post
“RT @chrispirillo: Home is where you configure your network.
4:44 AM Apr 30th”
I never talked to Gerald, he sounds like a nice guy.
Idan
May 13th, 2009
at 3:06pm
I also extend my thoughts and prayers to Gerald and to his family of had Been a great loss to the community and to everybody in his life and who he loved
Hearts and prayers
Ather
May 14th, 2009
at 3:23pm
Chris, a touching and fitting tribute to Gerald, although i didn’t know you, i took the time to go to your profile and pay my respects, and get to know your personality through your posts, comments and ideas. One thing is for sure, that you will certainly be missed by many, and by the friends that you had not yet made. I raise a toast in your honor and may you rest peacefully.
Luis -lou23
May 16th, 2009
at 12:43am
This made me really sad, when I was reading the post about Gerald was missing I was hoping for the best and that he could be reached out… But it’s in fact a devastating event, I’m sorry for Gerald’s family.
Troy Banther
May 16th, 2009
at 4:51am
Thank you for showing me that you are indeed a human being with sincere feelings and that you also didn’t just delete Gerald’s page. Very cool.
John Chorley
May 16th, 2009
at 6:28am
I’m sorry to hear of his loss, and I’m glad to see that you shown him respect.
Some people say his spirit might be watching over you, I hope this is true.
Joshua Carlin
October 30th, 2009
at 7:53am
Rest in Peace.