I was amused by your comment: “Now, we just need a site for single fathers.” I'm a man who reared two daughters after their mother decided, after 20 years of marriage, that she enjoyed the all-Lesbian sport of “muff diving.” (Please spare me the usual tasteless comments about being a poor swordsman). Both of the lovely daughters are doing well. One's married, the other is marrying in June. Yes, rearing children alone is tough. I doubt you will see a website for “Single Fathers.” Fact is, we just do the job and get on with life without the voluminous whining. For people who know how to make decisions and live life, “affirming advice” is superfluous. Deal with it. (From Les Morgan)