Comments on: Can Marriage be Saved without Talking about It?

By: retard11123

retard11123 — Sat, 31 May 2008 13:51:59 +0000

This and then half of the videos I try to watch on youtube load slow. I cannot find any video or any information off of google on what the problem is. Youtube and only youtube videos have slowed down (half of them) I am watching videos off of youtube without delay with same connetion I have been using last 3 years.
Anyone else dealing with slow youtube as of last two and a half weeks?

By: xXAlphaXx

xXAlphaXx — Sat, 31 May 2008 03:00:20 +0000

TweakUI? I wish.

By: leftystrat

leftystrat — Fri, 30 May 2008 17:04:07 +0000

One must first question *why* she gave you the book.
If this causes panic, it might already be too late. If not, read it.

I am a-religious but learned of the catholic practice of `marriage counseling’ before the fact (I forget what it’s called but it sounded like it had `canine’ in it). I was livid at the thought of it. Fortunately I am not catholic.

My wife and I went to couples counseling. We both say it’s the best thing to happen to us since after we met. At the very heart of the problem is communicating (we don’t – but we try). We learned what some of the communication and other issues were and we worked on them. We are a much happier couple for it.

I highly recommend counseling for any couple. BEFORE there are problems is a better time to do this, for obvious reasons. I wish we had done it long ago. It can also teach you lots of interesting things about yourself, as well as your spouse and the relationship.

-lefty (13 years and counting)

ThermionicEmissions

By: Grace

Grace — Fri, 30 May 2008 14:42:14 +0000

I think patient, tolerance, forgive, share the happy and tough time together and everything related to love is the best way to maintain a marriage. :)

By: Grace

Grace — Fri, 30 May 2008 14:41:56 +0000

I think patient, tolerance, forgive, share the happy and tough time together and everything related to love is the best way to maintain a marriage. :)

By: Grace

Grace — Fri, 30 May 2008 14:38:10 +0000

nice, i think patient, tolerance,share the sweet and tough time, forgive and everything that related to love are the best way to keep a marriage.

By: enet101

enet101 — Fri, 30 May 2008 05:22:35 +0000

Don’t get good insurance for yourself. That at least wipes the bonuses of one option off the board.

By: PersianPaladin

PersianPaladin — Fri, 30 May 2008 01:47:53 +0000

Mmm…I think talking regularly is important and reaffirming your affection through more than just words is also needed.

Having said that, I’m still 25, a virgin, have no luck with women and probably will never marry.

I wish all of you the best.

By: leadv0cal

leadv0cal — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:50:19 +0000

While sometimes it is the silences and the things that are not said which help keep a marraige healthy, for the most part it will not SAVE a marriage, that requires communication

By: Bread

Bread — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:48:34 +0000

I think I should read it. Maybe when I get into a relationship. But for now, maybe I’ll look for it in the bookstore.

By: Garrett Fuchs

Garrett Fuchs — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:48:04 +0000

Maintaining a marrige is dependant om many things. If your spouse is unhappy with you or your current situation, or vis versa, then you must talk about it. Lack of communication is the soul reason for relationships going bad. Before you can solve a problem, you have to determine what it is. This cannot be done without talking things over with your spouse. In short, yes, talking about things can potentially save a marrage.

By: David

David — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:46:55 +0000

Marriages can only be saved with talking. Are people just supposed to guess what the other person is talking about?

By: Bread

Bread — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:43:12 +0000

I should get a copy when I ever get into a relationship. It would be a good read. Even now, it sounds like a good read.

By: TDAWizard

TDAWizard — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:42:32 +0000

I’m actually surprised about this. Whenever i hear about people i know breaking up, its usually due to lack of communication. if this book really works though, i might consider buying it.

By: DrWho

DrWho — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:41:19 +0000

i don’t really know if this book is as it sounds, cause i think that the key in a relationship is communication, it depends on the persons, some might have it easy to communicate with each other some harder. This book might actually help.